I have found that my ability to control my own emotions is slowly decreasing. I cant tell if it is because of him or simply because my hormones are raging inside of me at this stage of my pregnancy. (32weeks) My heart aches because the reality is that I just dont know how to control myself anymore. I dont know how to control my emotions or the things that simply roll off my tongue with such ease. I can admit whole heartedly that I have not been the nicest person to be around. My patience is running thin. and I am seeing the effects it is having on Michael. In his eyes, I can see him begging me to love him like I once did. He so badly wants me to tell him that things are the same as they were before the accident, but they arent. I know it isnt his fault, but he is just so childish that my frustration starts to build and build until I can barely contain it. I can barely hold together my composure to even look somewhat happy in this relationship. The truth is simple. I need help! But I just dont know where to get it. I need someone to talk to who has any idea or even an inkling of understanding for what I am going through.
I wish I had the ability to let the little things slide off of my chest like when he makes a stupid joke, when he asks questions similar to what a seven year old child would ask, or when he feels like being argumentative about the littlest things. For awhile, I was doing good. However, it seems like my old habits are starting to catch up with me. The closer I get to my due date, the higher my expectations are for him. I know that is not fair. But I need him to grow up. I need a man, who can make rational decisions, and can act like an adult to help me raise my child. I do not need an argumentative child fighting with me every step of the way. I realize that I may be setting my expectations too high for him, but what am i supposed to do? Will he always be this child like person? Will things ever get better? Who can answer these questions for me? I need more emotional support than what he is able to offer me right now. I need him back, and I just dont know if that will ever happen.
I am scared that I do not have the emotional strength to deal with these feelings. I do not want to walk away, I do not want to be weak. At the same time I hate these feelings of being miserable and lonely. We are almost 10 months into his recovery, and we are 2 months away from having a baby. What do I do?